1poorguy wrote: “I would be wary of the pre-nup option. Depending on state law, it may not matter much. Consult a lawyer for that bit.”
While I was the one who warned the poster about the financial risk of getting married, I do not understand your comment, quoted above. Rich people get married to other rich people and to non-rich people all the time using prenups. Why do you say “it may not matter much”? Prenups are a proven financial tool, if properly implemented, to protect wealth. Can you cite otherwise?