Mostly, it is not laziness or etc of individuals, but rather the increasingly idiotic, frightened (the milk carton children syndrome), demeaning (low low expectation except for athletics and sex), and depressing status rathat then merit orientation of our society.
Want to help a friend or familiar lose weight? Get them to hang out with skinny people. The change of social surround is often miraculous, but most cannot because their old set of sickly friends are too valuable to them.
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