Much of the discussion is on the statistical level.
That is not the psychological level.
Individually many people that are angry do not know when to back it off. Women have a much greater freedom in our society to express themselves. In fact many of the young men and women with SM are now much more expressive. With that comes a need to learn socializing skills. No generation has an easy time of that.
On the male side of the coin accepting women as vocal has been difficult for many men. I do not appreciate men trying to stop an important progress for our societies in the west. Or beyond in places like Iran. Men can argue and be friends the next moment. Women can as well but between the sexes outside of wedlock that is still problematic for people of the two genders.
In wedlock if that is problematic…ouch,…
Some of these things are very instinctual.