Agreed! It also seems much more difficult for youngsters to leave the nest nowadays.
I could be wrong, but I’d guess that your daughters and goddaughter are not in the $300,000 - $500,000, nor the +$500,000 income brackets. I’m not trying to downplay their struggles, I’m pointing out their challenges are probably different, and more justified than someone making $500,000.
It seems ludicrous to me that people making that much money would live paycheck to paycheck. Granted, everyone’s life is different, with different costs. For example, a family having to pay high medical costs, higher school tuition costs, higher housing costs, higher insurance costs, etc. could find lots of their income eaten up pretty quick. That said, lifestyle choices play a big role.
La Demonia and I are losers who still work for a living. We make good money and have experienced our fair share of life’s challenges that can bankrupt families. We’ve also been incredibly blessed. I drive a 2012 Tacoma, my wife drives a 2013 BMW. We could afford new vehicles, but we choose not to. Instead, we’re socking away $700 per week into retirement.
From the linked article -
“Economists call it “social comparison,” the quiet pressure to keep pace with peers whose lifestyles broadcast success on Instagram or in the school pickup line.”
Not caring what other people think of you is an emotional, spiritual, and financial superpower!
Back when we were younger, we paid for a trip to Scotland with cash money La Demonia stashed in a savings envelope. We had a health care envelope, a vacation envelope, a kids’ activities envelope…you get the picture. Living within your means doesn’t mean you can’t live.