The same applies to casino gambling in that case. If you conflate two things (like you do with stock trading and option trading), for example, a guy plays blackjack against others, and sometimes wins and sometimes loses, but also writes a book about playing blackjack and earns $25,000 a year from the book. If you add all his “blackjack” cashflows together, they aren’t a zero sum game. Because you added in the blackjack book income.
You’re also making a genre error here in the numbers. You are accounting for cashflows of the seller of the option and of the buyer of the option. That part is correct. But you are accounting for the cashflow of the buyer of the stock at the start of the trade BUT NOT THE SELLER OF THAT STOCK. And you are accounting for the cashflow of the seller of the stock at the end of the trade BUT NOT THE BUYER OF THAT STOCK. If you don’t account for those cashflows, of course you can make any trade appear to be “not zero sum”.
The thing to understand regarding zero sum or not zero sum, is when the value of something can change without it having traded hands. For an option, there is ALWAYS a buyer and a seller, in fact, when you sell an option, it is sometimes called “writing” an option, because you are creating it (a contract) and selling it to someone else. Every penny that you gain on that contract, the person (or persons or assignees etc) will lose on that contract. That is zero sum. But with stocks, it is quite different. If a company issues 1000 shares at $10 each, and then a few months later, 100 shares traded at $11 each. The remaining 900 shares are also accorded a value of $11. That is where the non-zero-sum comes in. Sure each of those 100 traded shares were zero-sum, in that the buyer paid $11 to the seller, and the seller received $11, no net charge in the total money in that small universe. BUT the remaining 900 shares also now have a higher value, and THAT gain (900 x $1, or $900) is a new gain of value (hence, not zero sum) that has entered that little universe of that stock and its owners.
Now you might claim that an option that has 1000 contracts outstanding could behave the same way. But that would be incorrect. Because even if 100 options trade and go up by $1, the remaining 900 options also change value, but there is still a person at either side of the option contract, and they all terminate (expire) at some point, usually pretty soon, and in the end all that change of value comes from one hand to another (hence zero-sum). Of course that brings up an interesting question that surely has been answered before, but I can posit an answer here. What if an option has no expiration date? My answer would be if an option has no expiration date is is essentially equal to a stock itself because the owner of it has interminable rights to the asset, and of course has the right to sell it at any time for an amount agreed upon between a seller and a buyer. So I would say that an option without a termination date is equivalent to ownership of the asset itself. If it goes up by X, the owner of the interminable option value goes up by X. There is no decaying time value either, so it is pure value … like any other held asset.


