Only until he learned other methods of coping, like exercise, diet and meditation. Unlike what you claim, one can be ADHD and successfully not on meds, but like the weight loss miracle drugs on the market today, it tends to be easier with them, if you are willing to accept the possible side effects. Drs. assume the patient can only do the easy. Youngest did a lot of research into how to control his ADHD without drugs, and experimented on himself. He put serious time into it, which most would not do. Interesting side note: while inability to sit still is a sign of ADHD, so is the ability to focus intensely and for long periods of time if interested in the material. https://www.birmingham.ac.uk/accessibility/transcripts/brandon-ashionoff-adhd.aspx#:~:text=Hyperfocus%20is%20a%20state%20of,at%20playing%20that%20video%20game.
Hyperfocus is a state of intense concentration where you lose track of time, you really enjoy what you’re doing and you seem to be better at that than whatever it is you’re doing. Now if you’re playing a video game, you’re really good at playing that video game. If you’re playing a sport you get really good at playing that sport, that sort of thing. This is weird in the context of ADHD because it’s actually too much attention. You’re focused so intently on something, no other information gets into your brain essentially.
More than the fact that you essentially called me a liar, stating that if a kid didn’t need meds they didn’t have ADHD, in a reply to a post where I stated that my son had eventually been diagnosed (by an actual therapist and psychiatrist, not someone who once read something on line,) and was able to cope without meds, you got in the way of a message to other parents that could help kids who are not being recognized by the system.
I used to buy into the line that ADHD is over diagnosed. For sure the meds are abused by those wanting a little boost to their concentration, and the off script sale of these meds are rampant on campus. However, like the diabetes discussion we have had, my decade plus of experience in with Youngest has very much changed my mind. So I will repeat what I said earlier: Parents, if you describe your child as an adrenaline junkie, get them evaluated for ADHD. To that I will add, EVEN in the face of lack of disciplinary and academic problems. These kids tend to be high IQ and can compensate well, but are still being torn up inside by the lack of comprehension about what makes them so different. This difference needs to be embraced and loved, but not allowed to be an excuse for lack of performance, which can be achieved either with or without meds.
And to get back to how we could improve the results in school, I would say stop with the one size fits all approach. Different people learn in different ways, and if you cram one approach down all kids, you are going to lose a good portion of them. That was likely part of the magic of the Montessori approach we saw with our kids, before they got moved to a more conventional school. By choosing what you want to explore rather than having something continuously foisted on you, learning is fun, not a chore. Attention is easy, not impossible.
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