@pauleckler don’t waste your time trying to give @intercst good advice. He’s so smart that nobody can tell him a thing.
Kind of like my Ph.D. DH for whom I am in the process of setting up doctor’s appointments for the bilateral spiculated nodules that were found on the lung CT scan I made him have in January. He wouldn’t lift a finger himself.
We have been together 38 years. He has never seen me really angry. He will go to these appointments…or I will be truly furious. I love my husband like a teenager and don’t know why I have to work so hard to keep him alive. Which may not be possible.
Wendy