Hi Jim and other board members,
Thanks for so kindly sharing your wisdom. The truth is, if I had found this board a few years ago, I would be standing here a very happy person…Alas, I only found this board recently, and in many ways, it looks like my situation is hopeless. However, this is not a doom and gloom post. Rather, I am trying to learn and overcome the obstacles…in particular, I want to know what are the best resources/ courses out there which can help me become a solid, successful long term investor.
I am basically a very conservative person, molded in the frame of the "poor dad’ type personality…and always felt a penny saved is penny earned…It generally has saved me well, and I never allowed myself to be in a position where I tried to go after something which is too good to be true, and hence never was in a situation where I actually saw real time huge profits or loss of money…So, for almost a decade or so, I never invested in stocks, and just saved my money in bank. Although it is probably as big a mistake as the one I committed last year, I definitely allowed me to sleep well, and get on with my life.
Last year, after a very long period of time, I finally got into investing in individual stocks. While I initially thought my timing was horrible…it wasn’t. My biggest mistake, and guilt, is for putting so much in what I now perceive to be the worst of the stock advisor companies. For someone who was so conservative, I am still struggling to understand and rationalize how I ever allowed myself to get into this fix. I know why this happened – it certainly was not what anyone might think. I didn’t get into them thinking they will go to moon. On the contrary, I only put a small amount those companies but when they started going down by 5 to 10%, I panicked, and started putting huge amounts with the hope of dollar cost averaging and coming out the moment they hit even. That turned out to be huge mistake! I thought a 5 to 10% fall was dramatic loss, but now these are all 75 to 93% down from where I bought them!
One good thing is I now know all my mistakes. I am also sure that the market overall tends to be profitable over a long duration of time. After doing some soul searching, I sold many stocks at a huge loss (those stocks that I felt may never ever go back to even 50% of where they were a year ago; companies that had probably gone up only because of tulip phenomenon) , and bought some blue chip companies like Berkshire, Apple, Netflix, Google etc ( they are all down as I bought them a few moenths back, but not worried about them) …So, I am not looking to sell everything, and move out of stock market forever. Rather, I want to own up my mistakes, learn and become successful.
Having thought about all this, I still feel stock investing is still the best way to make money… I think there is money to be made if one can learn investing properly…I have heard of the phrase “Bulls make money, bears make money, pigs get slaughtered”.
Currently, I have allowed myself unwittingly to be in the “pigs” group…I feel there are folks who made money when the market was raging in 2020, and are also making a killing in the current market…So, how were they able to do it? and what do I need to do in order to be able to get to that level.
I know I can work very hard and am very wiling to learn. My only issue is I don’t where to start …and what are the best resources that will help me to become a very successful investor. I felt this was the most apt board to ask… Are there any courses or learning resources that you feel would be most beneficial in this regard? Would learning and becoming a CFA help?
Thanks a lot,
Charlie