Hi, Smurf!
Thanks for any insight you can offer.
Well, hell. Someone has to bring up an alternative viewpoint. I get the LBYM thing. However … you’re not required to get down on one knee and propose to a car. I mean, what’s the use of scrimping and saving your whole life (sorry if wrong, I’m ASSuming of course) only to keep doing the same thing when you’ve “made it?”
The choices among vehicles are almost unlimited, and many are among the best at … something, depending on your goals. Safety, price, mileage, quiet, ride, pleasure, durability, maintenance requirements, whatever. So why not buy (or rent!) a newer used car for a month and find out how you like it, sell it for what you paid for it or close, then go out and buy that model in a new car, assuming that’s still your wish? Not perfect? Heck, try another one. If it costs you a hundred bucks, or a few hundred bucks, isn’t it worth it to get the right vehicle? It sounds like you care about your choice.
It also sounds as if the car you choose has to last you for decades. That’s surely true for many less affluent buyers who can afford a car (any car) but you? You can buy any car you want and trade it in the next week if you don’t like it. So back to the LBYM thing: It has evidently served you well, and I am not suggesting you abandon it by any means. But fretting over car models seems a waste of time and effort.
I know the mantra here is LBYM, and I agree it has rewards aplenty. However, maybe you should also be rewarded occasionally for having “made it.” It might even be worthwhile to live this life like it’s the only one you have. If not now, when? Just a thought.
I know, I know. It’s no wonder it took me so long to become a $m aire. On the other hand, I enjoy my new truck and my old Corvette more than most things money can buy, and I’ve enjoyed the 16 of the 17 new vehicles I’ve owned. (The other? Well, I doubt a Jeep Wrangler is on your list, so not to worry.)
To me, family is for keeps. Cars, on the other hand, are for whatever I want them for, and only for as long as I enjoy them. Then it’s divorce city, and no lawyer and no alimony are required.
And that Goofy fella … I don’t know him personally, but I get the rock-solid sense that he buys any damned car he wants, whenever he wants. Seems quite fair to me. LOL, he can tell me if I’m wrong, as I’m sure he would.
That was easy.