how has handling hubster been these days?
OK.
Was he affected in any way by the departure of DS and GF?
Not so far as I can tell. He’s sleeping a little better–so I am, too–probably because I gave him fun things to drink with dinner while they were here (sparking water w/juice, kombucha)–also dinner 5:30/6 instead of 4/4:30…which had him peeing more in the night.
I’m affected by the lack of their company and help
Any new challenges? When there’s extended silence from you, I never know if I should worry, or if it simply means that things have been going really smoothly (relatively speaking), and you’ve been busy taking advantage of that! Hope this is the latter.
Days without him napping are challenging. I miss my aide taking him off premises. He seems to nap half the time she’s here <grr!>. I’ve had some appts of my own. I’ve been switching them to Mondays and Tuesdays when my aide can be here. Gettin him to shower/change clothes remains a chore. Peeing the same–some splashes on the bathroom floor and one batch in the bathroom waste basket, which was half full of kleenex, q-tips, packaging from new items.
Playing phone tag with county service.
I moved a low potassium diet discussion to the Health and Nutrition board. Here’s my last post there:
OK, had my video chat with the dr.
Request to change BP med to something that won’t raise K and isn’t a diuretic–>she switched him to a calcium channel blocker, Amlodipine (said it might cause temporary leg swelling)
Concern about his dehydration–>give him more of whatever he likes to drink (but I say only early in the day as he gets me up at night to pee 2-3x already-)
Request for consultation w/a nutritionist to help w/low K diet–>don’t stress about it. Keep giving him fiber foods–even prune juice. Hopefully the switch to Amlodipine and better hydration will reduce potassium (and sodium)
Re supplements–>don’t bother with them as he’s late stage dementia
Request for PT and/or OT–>she will arrange, asked if home or elsewhere preferred, I decided on home as it can be hard to get him to leave the house in time for appointments lately. Additional benefit is they check his BP whenever they come!
She asked me to make an appt for him in her office in a month to see how he’s doing.
He’s napping intermittently this morning. Maybe becasue we got up at 5:30. It wasn’t bad as he only woke me twice to pee in the night and I was able to get back to sleep quickly both times, so probably got 7-8 hrs for a change.
btw, dr agrees that he’s doing better at home than he would in a facility.
Goal for today–if I can;t get him to shower, maybe I can get him to the barber for a hair wash.
Ideally I’d have aide help 3 mornings/week. (OK, real ideal would be having someone do his showering, dressing/undressing, and take him elsewhere for a couple of hours a day–a girl can dream!)