about the aide help…
When he’s cooperative, I don’t mind a bit dressing/undressing him. But the cajoling/physically struggling over it is the pits. I give up quickly. Last shower was Monday w/aide.
I’d be much happier if she came M & Th or M & F instead of M & Tu. But she has a client from 9-3 W/Th/F (who pays $25/hr instead of my $20–I’m sure she’ll be asking for $25 soon).
WIll shower him or at least wash & dress him now.